….THIS IS HOW YOU SLAY THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM!!!
“He calls us by name. God knows who you are, what you are, and where you are. And when God calls you, the call is so very personal, you recognise He is speaking to you.”
Angela Thomas-Pharr
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How not to be free?
Clothe yourself
In regret.
Remember times past
As if they
Were happening
Right now…
…about temporal matters
And how to
To 'twit-off'
'Egg-cit'
Or simply employ
A rival's cords
To sew a
Similar uniform…
Be the excuse
Race, tribe
Colour or creed
We must
Never forget
It is man who
Rather than
Use his
Little grey cells
To lift and
Celebrate
His neighbour…
Here come
365 days
In which to sink or swim
Drowning in the words of others
Or floating on our own principles.
The problem with autocrats, despots and tyrants - both in situ and wannabes - is that their words are usually ascribed a gravitas that far exceeds their sensibilities and competence.
An ode
To all the women
And girls
Experiencing
Great violence of war
In their lands
In their homes
At work
On the streets
And many a time
At play
Be rest assured
We feel your pain
The aftermath
Of a relay
In a pre-
Determined race
With a gilded baton
Seamlessly
Changing hands
“A story that must be told never forgives silence.”
Okey Ndibe
Comparison.
A thief with
A thousand
Pit stops
On the long
Winding road
To stealing
One's joy
And destiny.
It is hard to believe that a whole year has gone by since infamy attempted to rob Nigeria of both youth and optimism.
There are questions which need no answers. However, there are those to which there are no conceivable answers. This, to me, is what makes many a query the very definition of rhetorical.
There are things we know
Things we don't know
And things we'd rather not
Be bothered with.
This last
Is the true meaning
Of "neutral"…
Like many African kingdoms, prior to being annexed by the British empire in 1897 the Ędo (or Benin) one was ancient, highly organised and thriving. To say that it was utopian is likely a misnomer. But since the western idea of democracy has never translated well in their colonies, by all accounts the citizens were content and the governmental structure worked well. That is of course until the British decided it didn't. Or couldn't.
I've long been amused by the glaring difference in the way that creative folks title and refer to their work, compared with other professionals. It's like plain and simple is anathema to us.
Whilst I’m almost sure I subconsciously decided what kind of man I'd marry when I was eight, it didn't in truth register as a decision until I overheard one of my aunts pouring her heart out to my mother about her latest romance-gone-wrong…
Alice stopped speaking to me one day because I didn't give the requisite response to the news that her friend's husband was having an affair. ⠀
In my defence, it was lunch time, and I was therefore way too hungry to muster up enough surprise, indignation and ire to satisfy her.
In her defence, she thought I was a "woke" Naija chick who would immediately start venting, whisk out my little black book, and give her the name of the best divorce lawyer in town. ⠀
That was soooo not happening…
In this week's podcast, my guests Kayleigh & Immanuel Böker chose to discuss one of the challenges they have been working through as a young married couple. I found it insightful and encouraging, and hope you do too.
For anyone who hasn't noticed, the world is changing - and has been for some time. And it hasn't just been about the stuff that has come hurtling at us full-throttle; it’s very much crept up on us in subtle and almost imperceptible ways.
We will always
Either be
Looking forward to
Or getting over
Something…